By adapting their linguistic folklore you'll give the impression that there is nothing more in the world that you want than to become one of them. It's the reciprocal effect you're after: because you're succesful, witty and have a gorgeous body and talk just like them, they'll think they have all that too! In order to keep up that illusion they'll love you for the rest of their dull, miserable lives.

(Selma de Vries)